Who's Hoin Who?

Song : "Encore"- Jay Z

So I figured I would leave my sappy love days behind...we not forreal behind because I will still post on that blog but I want this blog to focus more on you know just random stuff that comes to mind and I wanna blog about. My xanga blog will be just for personal, emotional feelings and thoughts...I cant be making a complete ASS of myself and having yall reading it. Yall would definitely think what the fuck is this broad talking about now lol....lets just keep it real here iight?

So today I happen to be thinking about ex boo's and well two texted me today...lol one was like "I can take a hint? I hope all is well". WHAT THE FUCK! GET tha fuck outta here! Firstly lol your married....yeah people this man was married BUT he was SEPARATED. LOL men SEPARATED still means your MARRIED! You cant expect me to be initimate and your ass is still FUCKING married! Married men cheating on their wives disgust me. Its annoying because its like why are u married to begin with! LOL of course you wonder all the women you couldve fucked in the world ( SHOUT OUT TO WEEZY) This is definitely not a lifetime movie here. Yeah ima blow u off and yeah your gonna know Im blowing you off. lol. Then the other one calls and is like yo yo yo...just a little chit chat here and there nothing serious lol. I've been called plenty of things in the past but the one that comes to mind is a player. I've been told I act like a dude. Not really sure what that means because last time I checked I still had a va jay jay and boobies. But I guess my mentality is what gets me title. Ok im not going to lie. I talk to dudes like they talk to me...lol I still plenty of game and it works. LOL dont hate the playa...hate the game she playin because 9/10 he's playing it too!

Ok so here is the main topic for discussion.....Double Standard on Men and Women.
Trust me this topic gets a lot of talk because plenty of people wonder why men can do things and women can't. So I was reading this book by Tariq Nasheed called "PLAY or BE PLAYED: What every female should know about Men, Dating, and Relationships" VERY GOOD book I might add, says that women ask this question " If men can do it, why can't women?" Why is that men who have multiple sex partneers are considered "studs, ladies' man or players" BUT when women do the say thing they care considered SLUTS and HOES!" I mean dudes going around fucking everything with a pulse lol and when women do it its consider wrong. So Ive come to this conclusion. Women are emotional creatures. Women who do the same thing men do should do it without having emotional tides with the person. Women have an emotion connection when it comes to having sex. LOL I know I do...sometimes...sometimes people. So I cant expect to get hurt right. WRONG! Women are internal. Men are external. We come aroused by things we hear like "Baby let me knock it out" LOL ok not like that but you get what im saying. Men love to see some breasts and ass. Men become intrigued by a women based on what they bring to the table...like if she can cook, or she can be loyal and dedicated to him. Not like us women who like a man to provide and love us.

So next question I ask...What Do you consider to be a HOE?
Ok for me a hoe is someone who has numerous sex partners. That should apply to both men and women right? WRONG. Women are called hoes more than men. Wrong I know but I didnt make the rules iight. Be a hoe gets attention which both men and women crave. Which brings me to something all women should know: MEN LOVE HOES- JUST NOT AS GIRLFRIENDS OR WIVES. Now ladies Im not saying your a hoe and what not BUT women should understand that regardless if you rocking this man's world up down and all around and got his toes curling lol...it surely will not keep him committed to you. I mean I understand it. "Why be committed when I can get the shit for free when I want, where I want...and how I want. She'll still be there in a month when I call that ass up for a late night creep. Man I love my hoes." LOL Im pretty sure some men dont think that way but they have that mentality. My ladies let me say this.... The way you start a relationship is they way the relationship will end. If yall freaking before yall actually get to know each other...trust me when I say this...because I been there...its gonna stay that way. Dont expect nothing to come outta that except a fat nut lol .

Yeah so I want comments people. I want good comments. Tell me what cha think!

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